Wanderlust: A Journey of Discovery and Growth
Introduction
Hello, friends! Apologies for my recent absence; life’s been quite the whirlwind, with a fair share of travel adventures that have inspired this post. I've always believed that my experiences on the road have significantly shaped who I am today. From marvelling at the magic of Walt Disney World's castle at age five to embarking on my first solo flight to a distant continent at ten, I've been fortunate to have these formative experiences early on. While most people wait until adulthood to begin their explorations, I knew from the moment I set foot in that bustling airport terminal that there was no turning back for me. Winning the superlative in high school for "Most Likely to Travel the World" is a legacy I'm determined to fulfill. So, join me as I reminisce about some of my favourite destinations and the stories they hold!
From Childhood Imagination to Adult Realities
Let's kick off this journey with a trip down memory lane to good ol' Orlando, Florida, where I first discovered my inner Disney princess. Legend has it that my very first words upon seeing the majestic castle were, "Just get me to that castle!" And you know what? I made it there, eventually even calling it home for a while. So, I drove to Orlando from St. Catharines to fulfill my dream of becoming a Disney cast member. Now, road trips may not be my preferred mode of travel (I'll stick to airports and planes, thank you very much), but as they say, it's all about the journey, not just the destination. My fondest memory from my summer was my road trip there with Dug by my side and many stops for coffee. One of the most profound lessons I've learned from my visits to the most magical place on earth is that you're never too old to believe in a little bit of magic. Working there inspired me to significantly shift from life sciences to the creative industries, a decision that has truly felt like finding my calling. Reflecting on my time at Disney, nostalgia plays a significant role. Memories of my first visit with my Nonni, especially as it turned out to be her last trip, hold a special place in my heart. Returning almost a decade later, I found myself reminiscing about the moments we shared, like the hilarious mishap on Splash Mountain where my Nonni lost her wig, a memory forever etched in my mind. My mom's childhood memories of Disney, especially those with her dad (my grandpa), have also shaped my connection to the place. While I never had the chance to experience it with him, hearing her stories allowed me to live vicariously through her adventures. This nostalgia is what fuels my passion for creating magical moments for others. During my interviews with the company, I emphasized my desire to be a part of making memories for others. It brings me immense joy to contribute to people's adventures at Disney. Hopefully, it includes exploring the world showcase and making your way to the best pavilion, Canada!
An Expedition with Grandma to South Africa
Our next adventure takes us to a whole new continent, Africa! My grandma had been making annual trips to Africa for as long as I could remember, accompanying university students on teaching placements in the townships of Cape Town. It had always been her dream to take me along, and finally, in fifth grade, that dream became a reality. Even before we embarked on our journey, I learned the value of giving by foregoing birthday presents and taking the money with me to Africa. It was a small sacrifice for me, but it significantly impacted the students we met. My birthday that year became one of the most memorable experiences I've ever had. While my grandma worked with her students, I had the privilege of spending time with students my age in a classroom. Their world was vastly different from mine. The entire school day consisted of copying notes from a blackboard that stretched across all four walls of the room, contrasting with the type of elementary school environment I was used to, where I found myself playing tag in the gym or exploring the library with friends. This experience was my first true immersion into a culture outside of North America, leaving a lasting impression on me. The differences between their school environment and what I was accustomed to back home highlighted the disparities in educational resources and opportunities. Yet, despite these challenges, the kindness and warmth we received from the people we met in South Africa made this trip unforgettable. As an adult, it's a place I hope to revisit, to delve deeper into its history, and to genuinely reflect on the experiences that shaped me during that time.
A Service Trip to Guatemala in Middle School
Our next stop takes us to Guatemala, where I embarked on a transformative journey during middle school at the age of twelve. While most of the volunteers were high school students, I stood as the lone seventh grader. As an only child and not yet the outgoing, bubbly person you know today, this trip pushed me out of my comfort zone in the best possible way. With my mom's unwavering support, I embarked on this adventure, seeking new experiences and purpose. Partnering with an organization called DIG, originally from Canada, and collaborating with my school, I worked on various projects to serve the local community. From helping construct a new school to engaging with children at a special needs facility and even attempting to carry water from one point to another in a remote mountain village, each experience left a lasting impact on me. The warmth and hospitality we received from the people of Guatemala made us feel like celebrities. One particular moment that stayed with me was when a girl my age marvelled at how we all fit into that "tin can" in the sky to come and visit her and her community, which emphasizes the disparities in our realities and how a simple concept like an airplane was foreign to her. The irony of using a tin can to play soccer was not lost on me either. I quickly learned that luxuries like hot water were not available around the world. Adjusting to quick, cold showers became a lesson in gratitude and mindfulness, something I never had to consider back home in North America. Additionally, learning that seatbelts aren't legal everywhere allowed me to enjoy the freedom of standing on the back of a pickup truck while being driven around, but also be grateful for the safety guidelines we have set in place in Canada. These experiences taught me the importance of perspective and living in the present moment. Reflecting on my time in Guatemala, I gained a deeper understanding of the diversity of human experiences and the privilege of living in a developed country. It instilled a sense of empathy and a desire to continue serving others, no matter where life takes me.
Working at Disney and Moving to a Different Country
Embarking on my three-month journey at the enchanting Walt Disney World was an adventure many of you followed closely on @Disneydugandem. If you've been keeping up with my previous blogs, you'd know of the mental struggles I faced last year and my reluctance to move to Florida. However, one day, my mom suggested, "Why not bring Dug?" My loyal rescue chihuahua accompanied me on an epic 18-hour road trip. Fortunately, the Disney cast members proved incredibly friendly, making it easy to create fast friendships, with Dug as a charming conversation starter. Despite our diverse backgrounds and nationalities, our fast connections eased our transition into the new work environment. Amidst the whirlwind of new experiences in those short three months, I commemorated my time in Florida by getting a tattoo inspired by the movie "Up," with the timeless phrase, “Adventure is out there.” This tattoo is a testament to the transformative power of my adventures and the importance of embracing new experiences. Before I knew it, I formed deep connections with some of my closest friends today, exploring new spots in Florida during our days off or enjoying the parks together. Many have remarked how much I've changed since that summer, both externally and internally. Disney restored my confidence and ignited a passion for chasing my dreams. Their exceptional networking events and supportive recruitment efforts inspired me to pursue my career goals in the creative industries. Reflecting on where I was a year ago, I realize these experiences were pivotal in preventing me from feeling stuck and getting me to where I need to be today. Who knew today I would be counting down the days until I move to Florida in the fall?!
Cuba Chronicles
My most recent adventure took me to Holguin, Cuba, with my mom and grandma. While my mom had visited a few times before and loved the location, it was my first time even stepping foot in the country. Cuba's rich history has always fascinated me, but experiencing it firsthand was surreal. The scarcity of supplies and the strict security measures at the airports gave a clear picture of the reality faced by the Cuban people. Engaging with the locals and listening to their stories was a highlight of my trip. Despite many possessing degrees and could access free education, most were drawn to hospitality for its tips. I had enlightening conversations with individuals like a waiter with an engineering degree and another pursuing medical studies. I even questioned whether they'd leave if given the chance, with the majority opting to stay. Spending just a week in Cuba, I absorbed the vibrant energy and admired the strong work ethic of its people. It reminded me that one's attitude and outlook on life significantly shape their experiences. This trip allowed me to reflect on the turning point of my life when I embraced living life on my terms, prioritizing my happiness over unnecessary constraints. While in Cuba, I encountered remarkable individuals, building genuine connections. While I embarked on the trip with my mom and grandma, by the end of the week, I greeted most people who crossed my path by name. Embracing the carefree spirit I gave off, I was titled the "hub," bringing our new friend group together to share stories and create lasting memories while in Cuba. From dancing solo on the first night to having beach dance parties with new friends at sunset, every moment felt like a scene from a cherished movie. The encounter with a photographer capturing candid shots of our beach dance emphasized the fate of the experience. I met fascinating individuals, each contributing to the memories that now define my Cuban adventure. Who would have thought a trip intended for leisurely reading ( I packed 7 books, I read 1…) would evolve into a whirlwind of unforgettable moments? As I embrace my newfound title as the “life of the party,” I look forward to making more memories and spreading joy wherever I go. After all, life's adventures are meant to be lived to the fullest, aren't they?
Conclusion
As I prepare for my first solo adventure to Spain, followed by my move to Florida in the fall, inspired by the stories shared in my blog, I'm filled with anticipation and excitement. This upcoming journey signifies a significant milestone in pursuing personal growth and exploration. While travelling alone might appear daunting, I welcome it as an opportunity for self-discovery and cultural immersion. Reflecting on the invaluable lessons from past adventures, from childhood magic with Disney to life-changing experiences in Guatemala, South Africa, and Cuba, I carry the resilience and openness needed to embrace new adventures. With gratitude for the past and excitement for the future, I anticipate the moments of discovery and connection awaiting me. Through "Toronto Tails,” I aim to inspire others to embark on their journey of self-discovery and exploration. Life's most incredible adventures are meant to be experienced together, and I am excited to continue sharing this journey with each of you.
